Setting goals is an important key to the success of any business. People who keep up with and achieve their goals are noticed more, probably because they are the “movers and the shakers”. Because they are written, these particular business owners achieve their goals relatively easily. In contrast, people who choose not to set written goals don’t know where they are going or even where they want to go. So in essence these businesses are stagnant with no immediate hope of moving forward. Written goals are paramount to build your business and do well in life. Here are ten tips that can help you attain your goals:

1. Written goals are written by people who know exactly what they want to achieve. They know their business and personal worth, and act accordingly. A good way to start writing your goals is to make a list of your accomplishments every day. Also take some time to dream big. Where do you want to be next year? Five years down the road? Do you want to expand your offerings? Add product offerings? You will be surprised to know that you could find out a lot about yourself in this process that you never noticed before. Once you start looking at this list, not only will your self-confidence boom, but you will have a renewed fervor about your business.

2. Be clear about your goals. If need be, break your goals into smaller, more manageable tasks. Pat yourself every time you achieve a minor goal. It will boost your self-confidence, and help you achieve bigger goals.

3. Find a mentor who can help you reach your goal. Most people, who have done well in life, have a mentor who has traveled the same road on which they are traveling today. Meet your mentor regularly, and seek his/her advice and support as a routine. You will find that you are learning something valuable every day.

4. Socialize with people who are positive and supportive. Life is give and take so make sure that you give them the same support and respect that they give you. Be sure to avoid people who are negative and critical of you and your business. Such people erode your self-confidence. They make you look at your negative self, and not your positive self. After some time, you get enveloped in their cynical and negative world-view and negativity is sure to set in about your business. Nothing can be more damaging than that. Take an inventory of those around you. Do they hinder or harm your success? If they are friends, dump such “friends” as soon as you can. Or ask yourself how you can help them change the way they think about you and life around them. If they are family members, you must take caution. If you have an open relationship, let them know how it makes you feel when they talk negatively about you or life in general. Let them know that you are making positive changes in your life and that you will not be able to listen to their banter anymore (this approach can also work with friends). You want the MOST supportive people around you. The negativity in your life has got to go.

5. Pay attention to what your goals look like. Make sure you take pleasure in writing your goals. If you do, they will be more attainable in the long run. When you begin to attain your goals, you will have an air about you that in contagious. Remember that every human being wants to be found in the company of smart, intelligent, successful people. When your goals are realized and attained you will radiate a positive, smart look. Remember attainable goals very easily make the difference between success and failure.

6. Don’t be afraid of failures. Take them in stride and move on. Say to yourself that you will succeed the next time. Never make the mistake of allowing your failures to overwhelm you. Shrug off your failures as something inconsequential, and take on a new challenge. Of course, you must learn from your past mistakes, and be realistic about your abilities.

7. Keep your goals “fit” by exercising them regularly. A “fit” goal is much attainable and achievable when they are whittled down. If you are consistently not meeting your goals take some time to “exercise” them. Do they need to go on a diet? Can they be broken down into more manageable chunks? We all like to think and dream big. But if you are not achieving your goals, it may begin to affect the positive attitude that you exude and this can affect not just your business, but can carry over into other areas of your life.

8. Have a wide range of interests, and take an active interest in what’s going on in the world. Meet and talk to a lot of people. Don’t focus all your attention only on your business and your written goals. Don’t be afraid to divert your attention to new interests and new tasks.

9. Your goals should contain what that you love. You may have excelled at things in the past and then given them up because you’ve come to the conclusion that they are not right for you. Remember, you will never grow your business by doing the things that you hate. Burnout is inevitable and the goals will ultimately be unrealized.

10. Don’t be afraid to pick new goals if your goals have not come to fruition. Nothing can erode the confidence in your business better than having consistently unattained goals. We’ve all heard the saying, “good things come to those who wait.” Perhaps it’s just not the time for this particular goal to be realized. Don’t give up. Keep it written down and come back to it. If your goals are attainable you will also increase your self-confidence.

Try to practice these tips faithfully and see the difference in your business.

WORD OF CAUTION: Don’t make all of your goals too easy to attain. Eventually you will stagnate. Take a leap of faith, dream big! The world is yours for the taking!

About the Author
Becki Noles, Visionary of Virtual Accuracy has been at the forefront of stream-lining coaching and entrepreneurial businesses since 1998. Utilizing her background in marketing, publicity, corporate training, advertising and media, Becki custom tailors and implements individualized action plans for taking coaching businesses to the next level. As a Virtual Assistant her business partners with top business and executive coaches in the United States, Canada, Switzerland and the world over.

The seeming phenomenon of this new “awareness” of the Universal Law of Attraction is sweeping the world, especially since the release of the eye-opening movie The Secret. Even though critics of the movie suggest that there were so many important things left out of the movie, the version with Abraham-Hicks went into details about how to activate this Law. Other scientist featured in the movie, such as Fred Alan Wolfe, went into the metaphysical reasons about how it works.

Simply stated, activating the Law of Attraction, paraphrasing the movie, is a three step process: Ask, Believe and Receive.

The Asking, according to Abraham-Hicks is done with thought vibrations and feeling. The Universe is made of vibrating particles of energy, of which we all consist of. Because of this energetic connection, our thought forms are energy signals that are projected into the Universe. Our emotional guidance system, according to Abraham-Hicks, is our personal indicator that lets us know when we are closer to realizing that which we’d like to see or that which we’d not like to see. Our thoughts and feelings do the asking. Not necessarily the words.

Believing is the next step in the process. Once the thought form is created, the belief sustaining this thought will be fueled often by emotion. Beliefs are very strong opinions that actually create your truth and your reality. When you have a strong belief for something to happen, usually it does. When you have a strong belief about something not happening, the ironic thing is that it also happens. This baffles a lot of people because underlying/subconscious beliefs are asking too. There’s a process beyond this that can help clear out these underlying beliefs if this really concerns you.

The last step is Receiving. The receiving part of the process is probably the most difficult for most people because it involves allowing: getting beyond resistance and attachment to the outcome…actually letting go. Often times, when we want something so badly, the feeling and thought-form surrounding it is “lack.” The Universe picks up on this vibration of “lack” and in turn returns more lack of whatever it is that you’re really asking for. So, to receive with success, requires you to release blockages and to cleanse areas of the subconscious that could be sabotaging your efforts without you even really being aware of it. This is what can frustrate some people with activating the Law.

The process of Ho’oponopono goes into more details about releasing. Some call it The Secret behind The Secret. To get a glimpse of what Ho’oponopono involves and how you can incorporate it with the Law of Attraction, visit the article The Law of Attraction and Ho’oponopono.

About the Author
Megan Jenifer operates the blog http://www.TheLawofAttractionStation.com which is all about The Law of Attraction. She loves giving away free stuff and is now giving away a free copy of her special report, “The Top 10 Ways Most People Repel Money.” In addition to this free report, you’ll also have a free membership to her newsletter. You’re not going to believe what you get when you sign-up and it’s all free.